What we call love is not love - OSHO

What we call love is not love. And the test comes only when love starts disappearing; then you suddenly see it was not love. You were simply full of lust – a physical, biological attraction. You were not a master of your love, you were only a slave, driven by blind forces of biology. Certainly such kinds of passion cannot become compassion.
If you want your love to grow into compassion then first let it be love! You cannot hope.
You sow the seeds of marigolds and hope for roses. Your flowers will show what was hidden in the seeds...

OSHO : Om Shantih Shantih Shantih
CHAPTER 9. OLD STONES THAT YOU USED TO THINK WERE DIAMONDS