Drop all splits, don’t create any fight – don’t choose. - OSHO

Drop all splits, don’t create any fight – don’t choose. Be angry and accept it, be sexual and accept it, be greedy and accept. What else can you do? Nature has given these things to you so accept them, and their consequences of course.
If you are angry, then someone else will be angry – accept the anger and the consequences. Then your split drops, and by and by your inner bi-sexuality becomes a harmony, a circle is created, an inner orgasm happens – your female and your male meet inside. And when they meet inside you have become one; now a new being is born. This one-ness has love as its shadow. You cannot love. Your love is a facade, a deception. Your love is just a trick, your love is just to attain sex. That’s why when you attain sex, love disappears.
Once you have had sexual intercourse with a woman or a man, love disappears. Again after twenty four hours energy will come, you will accumulate energy, and there will be sex again – you will become loving again. So love is just a means to have sex, that’s why you cannot love your own wife or husband – very difficult…

~OSHO~
When the shoe fits
Talks on the Stories of Chuang Tzu
Ch. # 1. When the shoe fits