You have tried to be non-sexual and you remain sexual;

You have tried to be non-sexual and you remain sexual; on the contrary, you have become more perverted. Sex has become more poisoned – so try Chuang Tzu, you are not going to lose anything. Be sexual when sex comes. Just as when hunger comes, you eat food, so when sex comes be sexual. Don’t make any choice, don’t say this is wrong. It is good. Accept it – it is part of nature. And suddenly the moment will come when you will be a unity and sex will be transformed automatically into love…

~OSHO~
When the shoe fits
Talks on the Stories of Chuang Tzu
Ch. # 1. When the shoe fits